Sometimes single mothers need help beyond pregnancy – a friend to journey with and support them into motherhood. Mommies Matter exists to do simply that, reminding single mothers that they do, in fact, matter.
The organization, founded in 2018, offers extensive support services alongside local pregnancy centers in central Ohio. Its vision is for every mother to embrace her dignity and value, and its mission, to empower single, pregnant women by “doing life together.”
Mothers can easily lose sight of their dignity and value. Single motherhood can be especially vulnerable.
“It’s easy to make assumptions about someone based on their circumstances, but those assumptions can be harmful and completely misguided,” said Monica Flynn, founder and executive director of Mommies Matter.
Single mothers can often receive criticism for their choices, financial situations, lack of traditional family structure and children’s behavior.
“Many single mothers find themselves in this position due to factors beyond their control, such as divorce, loss of a partner or unexpected life events,” Flynn explained.
“Each day is a testament to her strength, resilience and unwavering love for her children. Many times society overlooks her struggles, and instead, judges her based on stereotypes.”
Mommies Matter helps counter judgment toward single mothers.
“These women carry enormous burdens. They are raising children alone, facing financial strain and often enduring the weight of past trauma,” Flynn noted. “Many come to our doors feeling the weight of shame.
“By uplifting them, incredible transformations can – and do – take place, not just for the mothers but for their children and our entire community. We are called to hold compassion in our hearts, especially (for) the most vulnerable.”
Leslie is one such mother supported by Mommie Matters. She was introduced to the program by a fellow “mommie.”
The single mom attributed Mommies Matter’s support for her decision to return to school and study to become a certified doula and community health worker.
In February 2022, when Leslie’s son was six months old, life took a turn. Her partner and son’s father withdrew support.
“He exposed that he had been hiding an alcohol and drug addiction and became suicidal and scary,” she recalled. “We completely split up.
“I was looking for hope, community and connection. I had this beautiful, smart, amazing little boy, yet here we were with life not going as planned.”
Leslie attended Mommies Matter’s enrichment events and forged relationships with the team. She discovered she was suffering from postpartum depression and was connected with a life coach.
“I looked forward to speaking to this woman whom I had never met in person at the time,” she recalled. “Being able to have an adult conversation every second and fourth Tuesday each month was refreshing.”
Leslie also desired to grow spiritually.
She was connected with women including Mommies Matter family advocate Kendra Utt, who offered continual prayer and support.
When Leslie needed baby essentials, the organization was available to supply diapers, wipes and items for her little one.
Mommies Matter offers support of various types and in much-needed places: hospital delivery rooms, emergency room waiting rooms, courtrooms, car repair shops, assisting with tuition payments and counseling for trauma healing.
This year’s Mommies Matter Mother’s Day campaign, held May 3 to 10, will raise funds to directly benefit mothers in need.
The organization also welcomes volunteers.
Individuals can serve as mentors, cooks, bakers, child caretakers, enrichment staff, church liaisons, support sisters and mechanics. Opportunities include volunteering for baby showers, tea parties, diaper drives and event planning.
To get involved, visit VOLUNTEER. Individuals can donate online at GIVE.
For support, call or text 614-723-9308.